Approaching Valentine’s Day can be a difficult time for the lonely and broken-hearted. I have been there, so I understand how excruciating that pain can be. If you feel some sadness now, I hope you will happy up through reading the tips in this blog. If you already feel happy now, please forward this blog to someone who feels sad.
1. Try to keep a sense of humor. Laughter is very healing and it uplifts the spirits, so look for funny videos, books, and cartoons to help lighten your mood. To help get your laughter started, here is a hilarious video from nine years ago. In this video my younger son was ten years old, my hair was long, and I still thought that I wanted a romantic partner to make me happy. Thankfully I no longer cry myself to sleep!
2. Here is a list of my previous blog articles which might be helpful to you now. If you’ve already read these, try reading them again because re-reading information helps it to sink in on deeper levels. Whether or not you have read these articles already, try reading them out loud because that also helps the material to go deeper into your mind.
“Into the Fire”
“Divine Feminine & Divine Masculine Union is Within”
“It Is Your Duty to Live”
“StarFire Teja’s Three Tips to Help You Gratitude Up”
“StarFire Teja’s Three Super Simple Spiritual Practices”
3. Remember that Valentine’s Day is about all kinds of love, not just romantic love. When I was growing up, each year my Grandma Becker sent hand-made Valentines to all of us grandkids. She mailed them to us with a dollar or two tucked in the cards, and it was always such a thrill to receive them. So remember that you can also share the Valentine’s Love with friends and family. Also practice cultivating self-love, and then extend that love out to all the beings in all the realms. And then, if you find yourself feeling that you love Everyone and Everything, that’s when you are in the Highest Love Vibrations.
Enjoy that love! Happy Valentine’s Day!
I hope this blog was helpful to you or to someone you love.
May All Beings Be Elevated to the Highest Love Vibrations!
StarFire Teja dedicates this blog to anyone suffering from loneliness, anyone recovering from a broken heart, and anyone longing for a partner. If you are suffering from loneliness and longing, take heart. There is hope for you to heal and to find happiness inside yourself.
All of us, of all sexes, have both feminine and masculine qualities and energies, to varying degrees. Happiness can be found by cultivating the awareness and the understanding that the ultimate union of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine is inside each of us. There are many ways to practice cultivating that understanding.
Each day when I chant (sing) along with the “Prema Chalisa” on the CD “Trust in the Heart” by Krishna Das, when it gets to the end and he sings to Sita~Ram, I place one hand on my heart and the first three fingers of my other hand on my third eye (the ajna chakra, in the center of the forehead, slightly above the eyebrows), and I affirm that both Sita and Rama are in my heart and mind. In the ancient story from India called the Ramayana, Sita is an incarnation of the Divine Feminine and Rama is an incarnation of the Divine Masculine. So while singing to Sita~Ram, I focus on the truth that I am whole and complete inside my own being. It brings me great happiness, and sometimes even bliss, to acknowledge that the Divine Feminine & Divine Masculine Union is within.
You can practice this in your own way, adapting the concept to fit with your religion or other cosmic belief system. Regular spiritual practices can help to re-wire the brain in positive ways. At the beginning of my new book I offer a section called Radiance Rising, which is an extensive list of spiritual practices which will help you to go inside. Once you are there, inside your own being, by whatever method, I pray that you will experience the happiness of the Divine Feminine & Divine Masculine Union within yourself.
To enjoy that list of spiritual practices and to read the magical uplifting story of Sita and Rama, please order my book today:
The Tejaswini Ramayana: The Way of Rama in the Shakahara StarFire Universes
May All Beings Be Happy!
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